It's the beginning of something more intimate. It can make a man weak in the knees and if you are good enough, it may even pay your bills. So what is it? Oral sex, head, a blowjob, fellatio, brain, bob knob, skull fuck; whatever you want to call it-damn it just be good at it! So maybe oral sex alone can't get your bills paid, but you should still know how to salute every mans' soldier, and show your appreciation.
Call it the inner freak in me, but I absolutely love giving head. While I love rimming a guy twice as much as I love showing him I'm the "head of my class," this post is about head-so I'll make sure to stay on topic. It's a challenge in so many ways because some men cannot orgasm from head alone. There are so many tricks one can do with their tongue, throat, lips, teeth and hands that one can incorporate to ensure their partner extreme pleasure and together we will explore them all.
If you are sexually active, you should already know every single one of these tips, especially if you're in a relationship. Things get repetitive, and variety is the spice of life, so sometimes you've got to throw caution into the wind, and try new things.
So let's get into the tips:
MOANING ENSURES HE WILL BE THERE IN THE MORNING
The sound of genuine moaning can turn any man on because it shows that you enjoy what you're doing. Of course it shouldn't be fake like those women screaming at the top of their lungs in these porno flicks, but it should be just enough to trigger his neurological senses.
Being enthusiastic while sucking dick is greatly appreciated. When his starts to precum, look at him and smile while you’re licking it and smearing it across your lips.
Being enthusiastic while sucking dick is greatly appreciated. When his starts to precum, look at him and smile while you’re licking it and smearing it across your lips.
This whole cock ring phenomenon is taking over the strip clubs, porn films, and bedrooms, but not on my watch. Essentially you can create the same sensation of one, by using you index and middle finger to create an 'O' shape. Secure you thumb and your index finger around the base of his penis and as you do so create a pulsating sensation. The constant squeeze restricts blood flow to his penis, intensifying the sensation. However if you're not too good with coordination, a cock ring obviously does the same thing, but being able to do it on your own, makes you a pro...and who doesn't want a pro in bed.
LINDA LOVELACE THAT DICK
Deepthroating is a talent that is to be respected, a talent that I possess, and have worked hard at perfecting. Men love this technique because it feels like the anus, but wet and with a tongue. For some it's not as easy to perform this, and if this is the case for you, it could be the position you are doing it in.
It is important to angle the penis so that it's in alignment with your throat. If you are still having a problem with it, there's a simple solution to your dilemma and it involves something you do everyday...I hope...and it's brushing your tongue.
Your gag reflex is stimulated when something brushes your tongue beyond the point that it is comfortable with. So in order to train your tongue to not react and induce your reflex, take your toothbrush and place it as far back onto your tongue as possible, to the point where you can almost feel yourself gagging. Proceed to brush that spot for a few seconds, each and every time you brush your teeth. Slowly but surely you'll start to notice your gag reflex subside, as you move further back with the brush and continue doing so until you are a master at controlling it.
If deep-throating is an issue because of your gag reflex, or if you want a quick fix, use Chloraseptic spray or some other oral analgesic right before you attempt it. Being a little bit numbed will help you control the urge to gag. Also, move slowly. You’re less likely to feel like you’re choking if you don’t cram him down your throat before you’re ready to.
Another key component in deepthroating is being able to control your breathing. Inhale through your nose as you move downwards on his shaft, hold your breath until he’s pulling out of your throat, then exhale through your nose while he’s still in your mouth. If you time this right, you can give him a long, long series of deepthroat strokes without ever fully taking him out of your mouth.
Once you've mastered the deepthroat, it's time to take it to the next level. Cup his balls with one of your hands, and take his entire penis into your mouth. At this point stick your tongue out and lick his balls, sending him through the roof.
VIBRATE TO MAKE HIS LEG SHAKE
Vibrators aren't just for innies they're also for outties! A vibrator can be used during oral sex to add extra pleasure for your man, but before you bring it into play-reassure him that it won't end up anywhere near his ass...unless he wants it too (hopefully he does if he's freaking with me). But try this, hold his penis in your mouth and gently apply the vibrator to his shaft, balls, perineum, and frenulum. These are the hot spots of a guys' penis, and the places where vibrations are always welcomed.
DON'T SWALLOW
I know you are probably wondering what guy doesn't like it when you gulp down his semen like it's the cure to all of your aches and pains, but not swallowing can be just as hot. Swallowing is the preferred method because it provides uninterrupted stimulation because a guy can complete his orgasm without having to grab a towel or hear you complain about how much it is, how sticky it is, or how nasty it smells.
However holding his cum in your mouth after he's finished climaxing, and gotten all of the aftershocks out, and then slowly pushing the semen out of your mouth-is pretty sexy. Place your mouth right over the head and let the cum leak from your mouth, onto the head and down shaft. Chase it with your mouth, and remember to do it with a devilish smile because if you don't, I will. I'm not a cum feign like some of these men who down it like milk, but I love to do what it takes to please my man.
TAKE YOUR TIME
There's nothing wrong with a quickie, but there's also nothing wrong with taking your time. Often times the preparation for the main event adds to the excitement, so don't be afraid to tease him a little. Kiss, nibble, and suck on his member while he still has his pants or underwear on. Rub his penis across your face, lick and kiss his body, his inner thighs and pubic area. Good head cannot and should not be rushed.
UPSIDE DOWN FACE FUCK
I love this position! Mainly when I'm jerking off because there's just something about combining that with having a mouth full of 8 or 9 inches that makes me cum instantly. Lay on your back and lean your head off the edge of a bed or sofa. Have your partner stand over you, and insert his penis into your mouth as you remain still. Men love this position because it allows them to control how far his penis goes in, as well as the speed. This is also great for those of you who aren't the best at deepthroating, because it creates a straight path from your mouth to your throat. If he gets a little too excited, just used your hands to gently push on his pelvis and he'll get the hint.
MINTS ARE JUST FOR FRESH BREATH
Altoids can actually cause quite the pleasurable sensation when combined with oral sex. Why? Well according to a study the menthol in them, that gives your mouth that tingling sensation, works on all of your mucous membranes, including the genitals. So next time you go down, pop an Altoid.
HE LIKES ICE, I-C-E
This is pretty typical, but if it works why not try it? Placing an ice cube in your mouth creates a cooling and warming effect when performing fellatio. It's the element of surprise that will keep him in anticipation, but don't get too carried away.
Do not stick an ice cube the size of a glacier in your mouth, and expect things to go well, because they won't. Not only do you risk swallowing and choking on the ice, which is dangerous, embarrassing, and fucks up the entire mood, but it will make it harder to create the warm/cool sensation. Continuously leaving an ice cube on a man's penis will obviously make it numb, considering ice is used as a numbing agent. So aim for something you can tame. Stay cool, don't look like a fool.
BECOME A PART OF THE RHYTHM NATION
Her name isn't Ms. Jackson for nothing. Rhythm is very important during oral sex, and it's the unpredictable that causes the most pleasure. Pacing yourself is an important technique because it allows you not to tire out quickly. Don't just move your head up and down at a constant speed, but use variations. Slow bob six times, bob fast twice-then bob once slowly. Bob fast ten times, and so forth.
Don't keep your head in the same position the entire time, but instead move it in a circular motion as you glide your mouth up and down the shaft. Variation is one of the best components of sex, whether it be oral or intercourse.
REVERSE LICK THE DICK
Ever thought about using the underside of your tongue? If not grab a man immediately, and go try it right now! The bottom of your tongue has a completely different texture than the top. There are no taste buds, so the texture is smooth and almost silk like, and it feels great on the frenulum-the center area located right under the head. Although I'm an advocate for no hands, this technique requires it. Hold his penis at the base, and tilt your head sideways, place the underside of your tongue on his frenulum and being to move your tongue like a windshield wiper. This is a great move to incorporate into the entire experience.
MAINTAIN PROPER SUCTION, YOU'RE NOT TRYING TO VACUUM HIS DICK
There's a reason why it's called sucking dick, so suck the dick, but not too hard. Suction is very stimulating, especially when performed on the head of his penis. As with all sexual activities, it is important to pay attention to his cues. Some men who are extremely sensitive down there, and don't like a lot of suction, while others may enjoy it. He shouldn't be leaving your place with a hickey on his dick.
HANDS WILL MAKE HIM DANCE
Again I'm not an advocate for using hands during oral sex, but when you've been down there for a while, and been performing like Superhead quarter, those jaws do get a little tired. Those neck muscles begin to feel sore, and all you can think about is when the fuck is this dude going to cum?
Wrap your hand around his penis, and hold your hand close to your mouth. As you move your hand down his shaft, follow closely with your mouth, keeping your lips close to your index finger and thumb, not leaving any room for a gap between the two. This creates the illusion that you are taking in his penis deeper than you really are.
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AN EYE FOR AN EYE
I don't recommend this for a random hookup, but if this is a man that has been in your life for sometime, even if he's just a regular hookup, please proceed. Eye contact is sexy, it's kind of animalistic in nature, and can send non-verbal cues to your man, that you're enjoying what you're doing and you're sole focus is his pleasure. The key to this is not to continuously look up at him, as this can become a little creepy, and if you aren't careful, can lose your focus.
WIND BENEATH HIS THING
Gently blowing on his penis is a great way to break up the monotony of suction and licking. It's another way of teasing, and when combined with an ice cube, the results are undeniable.
TUG OF BALLS
A man's scrotum is just as sensitive as his penis, and therefore it should not be ignored. Gentle fondling, stroking, and licking can lead to an intense sensation, one that'll have him coming back for more. Try gently pulling or restricting them in the same way a cock ring would, as you suck his penis. One of the best times to gently pull his scrotum away from his body is when he's about to cum, the tension will drive him insane.
LET THE CUM FALL WHERE IT MAY
A lot of men, including myself find it sexy when a guy allows them to cum wherever they want to. Whether it be in your mouth, on your stomach, face, chest, or ass...this is the perfect way to finish him off, and put your man to sleep.
Becoming an expert at blowjobs takes true dedication, but being able to make a man cum in 30 minutes or less with only your mouth, makes it all worth while.