We are already 30 days into 2014; some have already broken their New Year resolutions, while others never made one, but it's never too late to commit to being the perfect gentleman.
Being a gentleman is always in style, no matter what the weather may be outside. In most cases it cost virtually nothing, but time and being aware of your actions. In 9 Steps to Becoming the Perfect Gentleman, SchoneSeelen covered topics such as: respect, hygiene, honesty, self-control ,first impressions and taking responsibility.
Incorporating all of those lessons as well as the ones discussed in this list, into your daily routine are sure ways to set yourself apart from the rest, and be considered as one of the best. So what exactly is the "new age" gentleman? Let the gentleman panel which includes Fonzworth Bentley, Musiq Soulchild, Q-Tip, and more-be your guide:
50. A warm iron and a can of spray starch can do wonders. Invest in them even if you don't wear slacks and button-ups regularly.
49. If you buy one pair of shoes and one suit per year, you'll have a nice collection soon enough. It's an investment. Also, know your measurements and sizes, because you might find a woman who wants to hook you up and get a suit made.-Chris Mathis, 36, barber
48. Keep all negative social media activities to a minimum, because no gentleman engages in things like Twitter fights or passive-aggressive Facebook statuses. It’s just not classy.-Chelsea Fagan
47. Tone down the bagginess a bit without wandering into nut-hugger territory. Showing your ass and boxers is not appealing in any setting.-Anslem Samuel, 31, magazine editor
46. Find a good tailor.
45. T-shirts should fall just below your waist, and the seam of the shoulder should be right on your shoulder.
44. Wear a belt. It's called underwear for a reason.
43. Always text back promptly, even if it’s to let someone down gently. The worst thing you can possibly to do someone is leave them hanging so they can torture themselves with worst case scenarios.-Chelsea Fagan
42. The world is bigger than your hood and the places your favorite rappers represent. Try to travel to a place where your cell phone won't work. That's when you know you've actually gone somewhere. If you can't afford to put your passport on pivot, try reading a book or travel guide about the place you'd like to visit.-A. Samuel
41. Barnes & Noble should be your best friend.
40. [As far as books], start with the classics: Catcher in the Rye, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Odyssey, Crime and Punishment.-Q-Tip, 38, rapper/producer/actor
39. If reading books the size of War & Peace seems daunting, peruse different types of magazines; ones covering art, architecture, design or photography.
38. Try not to go straight to the sports section of the newspaper.
37. Watch the news, preferably more than one channel. Suggestions: BBC, MSNBC, CNN and, yes, even FOX News.
36. Being open-minded and aware of the world around you shows class and sophistication, but avoid seeming pretentious by being modest instead of showing off what you know.
35. There will come a time when you outgrow the dudes you grew up with. Have a beer with them once in a while, but it's okay to move on and be friendly with new people.-Adam Matthews, 36, journalist
34. Go easy on the slang, especially among those who are already judging you based on race and age.
33. Don't just talk the talk.
32. Look people in the eyes when you greet them and shake their hand.
31. Take criticism with an open mind. You can improve from listening to superiors and by changing your actions to serve them. Don't mess with the pack order, it's there for a reason.-A. Matthews
30. Be on time to meetings, early if you can.
29. In meetings, don't hold conversations at the same time someone else is speaking. Let the person finish his point before giving yours.
28. [Rapper] Memphis Bleek had one good line: "The strong move quiet, the weak start riots." Don't be the guy who always needs attention on him or starts problems over small stuff.-Mark Rooney, 31, salesman
27. Don't talk down to coworkers, including subordinates. You may be above them in rank, but as a human being, you're on a level playing field.
26. Look for the people who will make your job easier. You can't do everything yourself, so you're going to need help. These people will be pivotal to your success. And always thank them and show your appreciation when they come through for you.-Claveria JoJo Gumersindo, 36, quality management
25. Don't be afraid to share the spotlight in your workplace. Rather than being self-centered, work together with somebody of equal ambition. You don't always have to be in the front seat, the backseat is cool.
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