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NEW MUSIC: SEVYN STREETER "IT WON'T STOP" REMIX FEAT. CHRIS BROWN

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NEW MUSIC: SEVYN STREETER "IT WON'T STOP" REMIX FEAT. CHRIS BROWN

Sevyn Streeter returns with an updated version of her single "It Won't Stop." The original version debuted back in May, and saw producers Diplo & Free School praising the emerging singer for her underrated talents.

“I would best describe Sevyn as a rarity and the experience of working with her as a gift,” shared Jean Baptiste of Free School. “She’s a talent beyond words and I can’t wait for the world to discover that. ‘It won’t stop’ is a testament to her artistry as an amazing songwriter and a great artist. I think we wrote that song in less than 30 mins. That session was pure magic."

In June Streeter released a video for the single, featuring an acoustic-performance version of the sultry track, and now she's back with her friend,collaborator and label head Chris Brown.

The two won't stop as they trade verses and adlibs. Streeter whose been working hard in the studio, plans on releasing her solo debut EP this fall, via CBE/Atlantic Records. Continue reading to listen to the steamy number.




NEW VIDEO: RICO LOVE "THEY DON'T KNOW"

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Blame Diddy, Sean Garrett and The-Dream. In conjunction with the release of his debut project as an artist, Rico Love, liberates the music video for “They Don’t Know.”  The first single off the Discrete Luxury EP is a smooth and catchy record about his woman on the side, who is much more than a jumpoff, someone he truly respects and has a real connection with.

The stark, black and white video, which reflects Rico’s interest in art and fashion, follows a mysterious female through an empty art gallery, ending with an obscured shot of the auteur himself.

“It’s metaphorical because you can’t see me fully, so you don’t know if it’s me, just like people don’t know that it’s me behind some of the songs they’re listening to,” Rico explained about the visual.

"They Don't Know" isn't a bad song,not a fan of its' message, but production wise it's a good listen. However, it'd be better if it were recorded by an artist who can actually sing and rap.

Discrete Luxury is available on iTunes now. Check out the video above and stay tuned!

LEGENDARY RAPPER TALIB KWELI SAYS HIP-HOP NEEDS TO FIND ITS' GAY EMINEM

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LEGENDARY RAPPER TALIB KWELI SAYS HIP-HOP NEEDS TO FIND ITS' GAY EMINEM
Talib Kweli says a gay rapper needs to stand up and do for gay people in Hip-Hop what Eminem did for white rappers.
A year after Openly Gay Rappers in Hip-Hop, Will it Ever Become a Reality, fans, critics, activist, and artist such as the legendary Talib Kweli still wonder why there are no prominent openly homosexual artist in the musical genre of Hip-Hop.

Andrew Potts--Black Star rapper Talib Kweli has said that an openly gay rapper could go far in addressing homophobia in the African American community and break down boundaries around gay acceptance in hip hop music.

‘Homosexuality in hip-hop is an extension of homosexuality in the black community,’ Kweli told Mother Jones.

‘The black community is very, very conservative when it comes to homosexuality, and I don't mean conservative in the good way, like we're saving money. I mean very intolerant. That's how it's always been.’

However Kweli sees an evolution of views in younger people’s minds.


‘I do see a new generation, partly because of the internet and technology, embracing it. I see young black boys, young black women in the hood embracing homosexuality in ways they never would've when I was younger,’ Kweli said.

‘When I was a teenager, the way some of these kids out here be actively gay, it would have been ridiculed in the hood. And now the hood is a bit more accepting. Begrudgingly accepting, but definitely more accepting than 20 years ago when I was a little kid.

‘That doesn't mean that anybody should stop fighting for equality just because people are begrudgingly a little more accepting. Now people won't beat you up; they might just talk behind your back.’

Kweli said that if a gay rapper could succeed in winning audiences over in the same way that Eminem had done as a white rapper it would go a long way to boosting acceptance of gay people among rap music fans and African Americans.

‘As far as hip-hop, it's real simple,’ Kweli said.

‘There just needs to be a gay rapper—he doesn't have to be flamboyant, just a rapper who identifies as gay—who's better than everybody. Unfortunately hip-hop is so competitive that in order for fringe groups to get in, you gotta be better than whoever's the best.

‘Before Eminem, the idea that there would be a white rapper that anybody would really check for was fantastic or amazing or impossible. You had people like 3rd Bass and other people came through, and people respected them for their dedication to hip-hop.

‘But people didn't really take white rappers seriously until Eminem, because he was better than everybody. Like female emcees, you need to be like Lauryn Hill or Nicki Minaj or killing everything before somebody takes you seriously.’

[GAY STAR NEWS]

PORN STAR BRIAN PUMPER ADDRESSES GAY AND TRANNY RUMORS, "I RESPECT PEOPLES' LIFESTYLES AND COULD BE FRIENDS WITH A GAY PERSON"

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PORN STAR BRIAN PUMPER ADDRESSES GAY AND TRANNY RUMORS, "I RESPECT PEOPLES' LIFESTYLES AND COULD BE FRIENDS WITH A GAY PERSON"

Don't expect 32 year-old porn star Brian Pumper to be coming out any time soon.

Pumper began performing in adult films in 2001. In 2004 he won the AVN Award for Best Three-Way Sex Scene, for Weapons of Ass Destruction 2. Three years later in 2007 he won for "Best Hardcore Anal", and in 2009 he won for "Best Interracial Oral".

His career as a director began with the company Black Ice, and in 2005 he signed a distribution deal with West Coast Productions. Pumper signed an exclusive directing contract with Evil Angel in 2008, but the agreement was terminated in 2009, after he forged an STD test for a female performer.

Pumper formed his own production company Freaky Empire in 2006, and has appeared in over 950 titles since 2001. Most recently Pumper has become a regular on the blogs due to his antics off-screen including an unfortunate venture into music, and what many saw as an exploitation of actor Laurence Fishburne's daughter Montana Fishburne when he enlisted her to be his co-star in Phattys Rhymes & Dimes 14.

Pumper's sexual orientation has also come into question due to his on-screen freakiness. Having his co-stars perform analingus on him in several instances, as well as former co-stars claiming his homosexuality, hasn't helped his case.

In an interview with VLAD, Pumper addresses all of the rumors, including the theory that 70% of "straight" adult performers are actually bisexual. He also discusses a diss record he made towards Jay-Z, what he'd love to do with Rihanna, and describes in detail how he would please Beyonce between the sheets.

WOULD YOU AGREE THAT MOST OF THE MALE PORN STARS ARE BISEXUAL:
"Anybody could be a downlow brutha. The most hardcore, gangsta rapper could be a downlow brother. Your favorite male athlete could be a downlow brother.Your favorite male actor that you would least expect...could be a downlow brother.

I know that I'm 100% straight. Other male talent in the industry, I've never asked them. The only way I could tell any signs is just from a guy's body language...I'm not bisexual, I just love women, but I respect peoples' lifestyles, and could be friends with a gay person."

ON TRANNY RUMORS:
"There's tranny rumors about every successful entertainer, everybody. You'll hear more tranny rumors than, 'He's just regular gay.' I have knowledge of the tranny world and the whole logic behind it...There's trannies everywhere. I'm good at spotting them because I don't want to be fooled if I'm on a date or I meet someone out at a club...they're not only in gay areas, trannies like to go to regular clubs.




He's a fucking idiot, cute, but a damn fool.

ROMEO BETTER QUIT TEASING AND PUT THAT BIG DICK IN MY MOUTH

FORMER ADULT ENTERTAINER JAY 'JD BLACKSTONE' DEBUTS NEW PHOTOS OF HIMSELF, AND IF YOU THOUGHT HE WAS THICK BEFORE, CHECK HIM OUT NOW

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GAY BLACK PORN STAR JAY PEREZ, JD BLACKSTONE

Back in 2007-2008 Jay Perez was one of the hottest versatile men to hit the adult entertainment industry. Working for companies such as FlavaWorks and Taggaz, "J.D. Blackstone" as he was also known, quickly became known for his infectious smile, passionate moans, and for having one of the wettest asses on Taggaz. His scene with Black  is still one of the best they've ever produced.

As quick as he made us cum, is as quick as he left, but as you will see from these recent photos of the now college student, he's added a couple of tattoos, and a couple of pounds. The weight looks good on him though. Such a cutie.

If you thought he was thick before, peep what he looks like now, after the break!







BUDWEISER WILL GET YOU DRUNK OFF HIS BUBBLE

LATIN CONO TAN BUENA


HOLE IN ONE

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GAY PORN HOLE IN ONE


He's taking it all kinds of ways.













SMASHABLE?

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gay black porn

I already know the answer with this one.
What do you think of the pic?

FLAVAMEN: MALO

BOOTYMAIL: DON II

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BOOTYMAIL BLACK GAY PORN STAR DON II

Bootymail alumni Don exploded onto the scene in Don and His Smooth Caramel Cakes Have Arrived For Your Drooling Pleasure, and you gentlemen seemed to love him. My inbox became full of messages inquiring about if there were more photos on the way...Well here's part II of the last set. 

Keep in mind gentlemen that this is not a hookup site. Discretion is something I am an advocate of, and I never give away personal information on anyone who submits their photos. Remember to show Don some love in the comments section, and stay tuned as there is more of him to keep you cumming!








DIESEL WASHINGTON'S "HARD WIRE" PUT ON HIATUS, "I HAD MY NAME ON THIS PROJECT AND MY REPUTATION WAS PUT ON THE LINE"

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DIESEL WASHINGTON'S "HARD WIRE" PUT ON HIATUS

Diesel Washington's directorial debut Hard Wire has been in production for quite some time now, 16-months to be exact. The entire project has been one of Washington's most challenging venture of his entire career, "This has been the hardest project I ever worked on, Editing from two cameras, writing the story-line directing, taking stills, PA work, picking locations and working on the sets and wardrobe, and casting talent." 

Talent which included Sarge, J.P. Richards, Rio, Python, Cristobal, Young Buck, Izzy James, Artist, crossover sensation Lawson Kane, Eddie Diaz, Robert Axel, Big Daddy, porn legend Matthew Rush, Samson, D. Lo, Junior, and two surprise entertainers. With a lineup such as this the project would have been a guaranteed success, right?

According to Diesel, the project has been put on hiatus. "Due to Creative differences....HARDWIRE has been parked!! I feel I let down the fans and all the people that were waiting patiently for this project to come out.  I came up with the characters and storyline and I tried HARD to make this idea come to life only to come hit a WALL recently....."

DIESEL WASHINGTON'S "HARD WIRE" PUT ON HIATUS



He continued, "I'm only one person, and I tried to make this happen as best as I could.  But problem after problem plagued this production. No production should take 16-months. I had my name on this project and my reputation was put on the line. I can't keep jumping over hurdles trying to release this project."

Diesel had to make plenty of sacrifices to ensure that Hard Wire would be one of the best urban pornographic films in recent memory.

"Lets be honest," as if he could ever be anything less, "I had to save my pennies and make sure everything was within reason to spend on this project. Dawgpoundusa gave me alot of creative control over this project, I try to film and produce content on a small budget, but Dawgpoundsusa was key in providing as much support as they could to make sure the realness factor was above and beyond, enough to compete with the mainstream."

When polled fans of urban porn had a lot to say in regards to what they expected to see within this release. 17% wanted to see strong passionate scenes, 10% wanted more kissing and foreplay, 6% wanted  good acting and good looking models, and 5%  wanted less talking and more fucking; which is typical of black gay porn, particularly with CocoDorm.

Diesel ended with, "Until the Creative differences resolve itself, HARD WIRE WILL NOT SEE THE LIGHT OF DAY...at least not with my name on it. I will keep people updated on the status of Hard Wire but for now.....HARDWIRE IS PARKED!!"

If there is one person whose happy about this, it would be Diesel's longtime rival Chase Coxx whom back in September posted via his Twitter, "Is anyone really anticipating Diesel Washingturd's directing debut for DawgPound feat. overly muscled black models? Will you support Diesel?" He then continued with the shade, "Remember when Diesel was getting hired by the white studios & thought he was better the rest of us blk performers? Now she wants our support. All you have to do is use GOOGLE to read the fucked up statements Diesel Washinturd has made about fellow black gay performers."

"Do I have an ax to grind? No, but I DO have a memory & I dislike turncoat blacks who come running back to us after they've been discarded.Diesel Washingturd trying to embrace black gay porn is as phony as Michael Jackson arriving to court escorted by the Nation of Islam. #Tired. Unlike Diesel, I started my OWN studio, I'm not helping make someone else rich, I'm making money for myself. Chase Coxxx owns JuicyGigolo Ent. I'm not riding someone else' coattails, being funded by a sugar daddy, or settling for a genre I publicly shitted on for years. #SelfMade."


"& I'm not even upset right now, I'm just not willing to forget what's been said or done until there is an honest atonement for such coonery."

Hopefully the creative differences that have halted Hard Wire's release will be resolved, and fans will be able to admire all of the hard work that Diesel has put into it.








BOOTYMAIL: BIG BOOTY PAPI

COCODORM: JOHNATHAN DANIELS AND HIS THICK ASS [VIDEO]

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Gay black porn star Cocodorm's Johnathan Daniels and his thick ass

This is your brotha Johnathan Daniels. Born as Capricorn, men be shitting bricks when they see me on the streets. I'm gay, Versatile, and if you want to get with this--you should know that I'm single. My skin's medium, hair is Black, and my eyes are Brown. I stand at 5'8", I weigh 190 lbs and my waist is 31-inches.

Gay black porn star Cocodorm's Johnathan Daniels and his thick ass

I know for sure that you want to gobble down on my delicious 8-inch cut cock!












THUGBOY: ROMEO ST. JAMES BUSTS HIS CREAMY NUT ALL OVER JOHNATHAN DANIELS THICK ASS [VIDEO]

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THUGBOY: ROMEO ST. JAMES BUSTS HIS CREAMY NUT ALL OVER JOHNATHAN DANIELS THICK ASS [VIDEO]

Johnathan Daniels starts off kinda nervous knowing that he's about to take Romeo St James' massive dick. He has that big thick booty and Romeo wants to tap that shit. Romeo comes in and Johnathan starts sucking on him right away, getting eager to take that dick. Johnathan bends over and Romeo starts to tongue his pretty hole, getting it prepped for the fucking he's about to put down. Romeo slips his dick in and Johnathan flinches and squirms but Romeo doesn't let up. He stuffs Johnathan deep and hard until he is screaming for more. 

THUGBOY: ROMEO ST. JAMES BUSTS HIS CREAMY NUT ALL OVER JOHNATHAN DANIELS THICK ASS [VIDEO]

When Romeo can't hold back any longer, he busts his nut all over Johnathans thick ass.































BOOTYMAIL: LI

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GAY BLACK PORN BOOTYMAIL: LI

Bootymail's Li emailed these photos, with a message which read, "Personal question, do you think I have the right body for porn?" Honest answer, "Am I gay?" Continue reading for more photos, and be sure to show him some love in the comments.











INFERNO DR CANCELLED, ATTENDEES LEFT STRANDED, FOUNDER WILL WILLIAMS RELEASES STATEMENT, "THIS OUTCOME HAS BEEN DEVASTATING"

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Will Williams Inferno Domican Republic 2013 cancelled
Sexy images such as this in promotion of Inferno DR 2013 have been circulating the net for months, but there is nothing sexy about the event being cancelled a day before--leaving attendees stranded.

One of the biggest urban pride events of the summer, Inferno Dominican Republicwas scheduled to kick off this past Thursday, August 29. It was being hailed as the event of the summer according to their official website.
From Thursday, August 29th to Monday, September 2nd, prepare yourself to experience The Royal Service at Inferno Dominican Republic as we celebrate our 5th Year Anniversary. In the beautiful city of Punta Cana, come and find out why this location is one of the highest in demand vacation spots in the entire Caribbean. 
With your host Entertainer Buttafly Soul, prepare for a weekend of exquisite food, pumping DJs, hot events, cool Caribbean waters splashing on white sands... only for the grown & sexy. The fun doesn’t stop for five days and four nights of all you can drink and all you eat of Dominican, French, Japanese, Mexican, and American cuisine. Come celebrate our 5th Year Anniversary of Inferno Dominican Republic… come and experience THE ROYAL SERVICE!
When some guest arrived in the Dominican Republic a day early on Wednesday to allot time to settle in before the festivities, they found themselves to be stranded at the airport with no transportation. Transportation that was included in the packages sold by the events' organizers.

Will Williams Inferno Domican Republic 2013 cancelled

After days of backlash, rumors, and public scrutiny, event founder Will Williams [shown above wearing the red cape] released a statement a day after his original announcement of the events' cancellation:



To friends and patrons of Inferno Dominican Republic:
While I appreciate everyone that has spoken on my behalf, I feel that every patron that has supported Inferno Dominican Republic deserves to hear from me. I am sincerely apologetic for what has occurred. No words can express the pain that I feel as a result of the postponement of the event this weekend. Inferno DR is the first and longest running event of the Inferno franchise and my personal favorite. Please know that I would never do anything to intentionally destroy it or tarnish the Inferno brand. 
This outcome has been devastating to me personally and was certainly nothing that I foresaw coming. Until the final moments, I believed whole-heartedly that the payment discrepancies between Inferno Dominican Republic and the Melia Caribe Tropical would be resolved in a manner to not effect the event or the patrons. I looked forward to executing the largest Inferno DR event ever and even coordinating our first ever marriage proposal.
Rather than point the finger, I take FULL accountability for what occurred and for resolving it. Please know that I care about every patron and shall proceed to do everything that I can to rectify the situation. In the coming days, representatives of Inferno Dominican Republic, LLC shall be contacting every patron of the event in order to resolve their accounts. 
When Inferno DR began I was told that "this" market could not afford this type of event and no five star hotel would allow it to take place on its premises. However because of "this" market, Inferno not only exists in Dominican Republic, but now in Canada and for three years now also in Puerto Rico as well. That it has been so successful for so many years, I am both humbled and grateful. 
I attribute the success of Inferno DR to the support of its patrons and promotional partners such as Zekeera Belton of A2Zee Entertainment and Lonnell Williams of 3LWTV. Like the patrons that come every year for Inferno DR, A2Zee Entertainment and 3LWTV are merely a part of the Inferno family and have no financial interest in its success. It is because of this sense of family that I will do everything in my power to rebuild trust in Inferno DR and again I am sincerely sorry for this unfortunate situation. 
Sincerely,
Will WilliamsInferno Dominican Republic, LLC
Despite the minor mishap, some attendees decided to take a taxi to their hotel, The Melia Caribe Tropical, only to find out on arrival that there were to reservations for them in the hotel's system.

Shortly after attendees started alerting their friends via social media, Inferno D.R. founder Will Williams released the following statement via Facebook on August 28 (a day prior to when the event was scheduled to commence):
Inferno DR 2013 It is with our sincerest apologies that we regrettably have to inform you that we are postponing Inferno Dominican Republic 2013. We apologize for any inconvenience that this has caused. It was our intention to provide each client with an amazing experience but due to unforeseen circumstances that will not be the case at this time. 
 We have attempted to rectify the situation but unfortunately we have exhausted all remedies. 
You will receive special offers and updates about the Inferno DR trip throughout the year.
 Thank You!
The event was promoted all the way up until August 27, but on August 28, the promoters were scrambling to answer the disgruntled concerns of vacationers. One rep on the Inferno D.R. Women site responded:
Ladies- This is what I know so far: They are working on the refunds. If you purchased the travel insurance you'll need to file a claim with the insurance company. If you did not, they will give an update on the refund status. That's the latest info I have as of now. If I get more info I'll gladly share.
Promotional partner Lonnell Williams [shown right] of 3LWtv who serves as a media representative for Inferno D.R.
released the following statement, August 29 on behalf of Will Williams:
"Good morning fam! Thanks again for all of your love and support. I want you to know that I'm working diligently with the Inferno team to make sure you hear the truth. I am in no way an official spokesperson for the group, I am a media promotional partner. I have learned this morning that an official statement will be coming today. There is a lot of misinformation circulating but rest assured they are working to answer your questions truthfully. As I learn new details, I'll also share them.
They are working on the refunds. If you purchased the travel insurance you’ll need to file a claim with the insurance company. If you did not, they will give an update on the refund status. That’s the latest info I have as of now. If I get more info I’ll gladly share.
Trust me, I’m doing my best to keep people informed. Will has not been able to take calls because he is dedicating all of his resources to resolve this. It’s hell on this end too.”
Before Will Williams released his official statement [above], Lonnell Williams did his best to save face:
"To all who have reached out to me today in light and love know that you are truly appreciated. I’ve been in overdrive trying to assist with the communications regarding the postponement of InfernoDR 2013. At this time I don’t have much more information other than what I’ve shared on the Inferno Dominican Republic Men and Inferno Dominican Republic Women Facebook pages.
Most of you have asked me where is Will Williams ? He has been grappling with the devastating affects of today’s announcement. I’m hoping he will be in a position to make an address soon. As further details become available of course I will share. In the meantime please continue to hold everyone involved (Will, The Inferno Team, patrons, friends, supporters & myself) up in the healing power of prayer. It is much needed and appreciated. Thank you." 
According to another unsatisfied consumer who contacted the hotel, The Melia Caribe Tropical had cancelled the event months ago for non-payment. Lawyer, reality show star, and creator of the first gay black reality series Tha LifeGeorge Smith was outraged as he had planned on attending:
"Show us this is not typical black gay business where the consumer suffers because we trust you promoters and event planners. Speaking as a lawyer and after speaking with the convention manager Alexander Beato at the hotel and him informing me that the deposit was never paid by the group and that they are trying reach you guys to get the payment, conflicts with what you guys are telling us."
Raheem Anderson confirmed Smith's statements, breaking down what the promoters and it's affiliates had actually done:
"I am outraged by today's event that the organizers of Inferno Dominican Republic Men took advantage of the African American Gay Community. This is a travesty at best. Point blank I am calling a spade a spade. After talking with the hotel and having knowledge of the entertainment business, it is apparent that there is a lie being told.
The hotel's convention manager stated that the room deposit was never paid, so this means that when people were paying, someone was pocketing the money. 
Furthermore, the deposit was due August 7, 2013, meaning the organizers knew before today [August 28] this was an issue. So that you know how this business works, you have a 30/60/90 day cancellation clause to mitigate losses in cases like this and in fact if they had paid as people were paying installments the hotel would have honored what was paid and simply collected the difference in this situation from the participants who wanted to continue with their trip.
Since no money was paid that's why they are requiring payment for your room. I say this good luck thinking people are getting full refunds "WAIT FOR IT". This is why we as African American Gay Business owners have a hard time getting support for events like this. Proper business practices would have allowed you guys to pay the hotel directly and the Inferno Organizers would have been written a check for their profit portion by the hotel. This just tells me that somebody did not have seed money for this event and dipped in the cookie jar for their personal gain. This is a mis-use of trust..."
Attendees who couldn't reach those affiliated with the organization, began contacting models affiliated with the event such as Stanley Etoty [shown left], in an effort to sort fact from fiction. However Etoty was just as clueless as everyone else:
"I’m truly sorry to hear of this you all. I have been receiving calls, text and fb messages all day. I do not have any answers to you’re questions though. I have no idea what is going on. I just pray that everyone is well and all of this will be rectified.
I am suppose to be a host at the event but I wasn’t book. I haven’t heard anything in months. A few others that were supposed to be booked contacted me asking if I heard anything a few days ago but that’s it.
I’ll be in the ATL. With all due respect boss man knows what he needs to do. Will Williams this is your brand, you’re name. You’re staff needs to do what they are paid for or be replaced. People shouldn’t be calling me asking questions that Inferno & Worldwide Travel Partners staff should be answering. It’s not fair to customer or to me.
Peace, love and blessings alwaysStanP.S.I’ll be in ATL #turnup
In light of the unfortunate circumstances, the same day that Will Williams announced the "cancellation" of the event, the hotel pulled all stops to ensure that those who are stranded in the Domincan Republic, and those who were traveling there later on in the week, were/are accommodated.
Good evening
We are really sorry that your event has been cancelled, we heard that some of you are coming by yourself, and we want to offer you a better rate so you don't have to take a cap which is 35 per way, and with us you will only pay 15 USD per person for the ROUND TRIP, we will be at the airport with a INFERNO sign to take you to Melia.
For the Activities (we never received any payment from WTP): Waterworld cruise, Adventutre buggis and Zipline. We also want to offer you a special price of 60.00 per person per activity.
Please let us know your comments ASAP in order to organize the buses and activities to give you a VIP service.
Melia also sent out notifications offering nightly rates between $95-$275. The outcome of this will be one to watch, but at least those who can't make it to Inferno, can travel to Atlanta Black Gay Pride, I'm sure they are benefiting tremendously from the irresponsible acts of others.





YOU DOWN WITH OPA: OTHER PEOPLES' AGENDAS, NOT YOUR PROBLEM

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YOU DOWN WITH OPA: OTHER PEOPLES' AGENDAS, NOT YOUR PROBLEM

Other people may have their own agenda for our life; we can value their opinion, but we don’t have
to take it to heart. As children, our parents had dreams for us. They wanted us to excel in school, and to do whatever was necessary to reach our highest potential. Later in life, friends may try to set us up with their idea of the perfect partner or the ideal job.

Significant others may have agendas for us, too. People close to us may have ideas about how we should live our lives, ideas that usually come from love and the desire they have for us to be happy. Other times, they may come from a place of need within them--whether it is the parent who wants us to live out his or her dreams or the friend or spouse who wants us to play an already-defined role. Whatever the case, we can appreciate and consider those peoples' input, but ultimately we must follow our own inner voice.



There may come a time when all the suggestions can become overbearing. We may feel that the
people we love don’t approve of our judgment, which can hurt our feelings. It can interfere with the choices we make for our lives by making us doubt ourselves, or filling a void with their wishes before we’ve had a chance to decide what we want. It can affect us energetically as well. We may have to deal with feelings of resistance or the need to shut ourselves off from them. But we can take some time to rid ourselves of any unnecessary doubts and go within to become clear on what we desire for ourselves.

We can tell our loved ones how much we appreciate their thoughts and ideas, but that we need to
live our own lives and make our own decisions. We can explain that they need to let us learn from our own experiences rather than rob us of wonderful life lessons and the opportunity to fine-tune our own judgment. When they see that we are happy with our lives and the path we are taking to reach our goals, they
can rest assured that all we need them to do is to share in our joy.

PHOTOS OF THESE SEXY MALE MODELS ARE OFFICIALLY THE HIGHLIGHT OF INFERNO DOMINICAN REPUBLIC 2013

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