[IMAGES COURTESY OF MARK HENDERSON]Marshall Evans and his lucky ass. The porn connoisseur recently had the opportunity to interview one of gay porn's hottest performers,
Sean Xavier.
The 25 year-old who has been making waves in the sheets for the past four years as a Lucas Entertainment exclusive:
THA XXX-LIST: TELL US ABOUT YOUR BACKGROUND:SEAN XAVIER: I was born in a small one-horse town called Victorville, California. I moved from there to Orlando, Florida. My dad started his own company so we had our financial ups and even more financial downs.There were times when we were making quite a bit of money and were living in the higher end properties in the city and then there were times when we did not have any money at all and we were living out of a U-haul or inside of a hotel. I stayed a year in Georgia. My mom took me and my sister when I was about 11 or so. I am not sure whether my parents were separated or whether the finances were so bad that we went to live with our cousin until my dad was able to move us back down. My parents have done a novel job of staying together through the really hard times and the times of success. I feel very fortunate to be raised by them. Education was always in the forefront for both me and my sister. I am getting residency in my new home state of Indiana, before I start school again for my PhD.
TXL: WHAT BROUGHT YOU INTO THE ADULT INDUSTRY?SEAN: Well, I think every young gay man has a secret fantasy to perform with the larger porn models in the industry. The fantasy of becoming a porn star was the same for me. It was motivated financially initially. I started webcamming to help take care of my family. When I started doing webcamming for Flirt4free.com. I really took off. I had accelerated to 4% or 5 % for the site and that got me noticed from other adult entertainers that were out there. In an effort to advertise more, I thought if I got into the porn industry I could become a more successful webcam model. I sought out help from Fabscout down in Ft. Lauderdale. I filmed 4 to 5 scenes back to back and built excitement with those scenes. Lucas Entertainment came along and picked me up. They liked my work and I have been with them ever since.
TXL: WHAT KEPT YOU IN THE BUSINESS AFTER YOUR FIRST SCENE? SEAN: Well, I would say it is satisfying. For instance, a lot of people when they go to work either love the job or they hate the job. There are very few people that will have this inbetween blasé feeling. I definitely love being on set, particularly with Lucas Entertainment. There is a family environment and of course you are filming with some really incredible looking men and you get to have sex; but there is so much that happens behind the scene with the joking and the laughing and the fun; like the dinners, the chilling out, and the parties and so forth, that is something I enjoy being apart of. Porn as an industry works well for advertising in other industries, too.
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: Yeah, happily…I really do not know how to find the words to express how I feel as you are referring to my attraction to men of color…ummm…it is the working environment. For instance, when I am escorting and I am with another man, no matter his race or skin color, I am with that man and focused on that man and I am engaged with that individual. I am able to have that one on one connection with them. So when I am with him in that way the sex is almost an afterthought. My feelings are to be a pleaser, it is not even a Top or Bottom, aggressive or submissive type of thinking, it is just me wanting and knowing how to please my partner. I try to know his likes and enjoying performing and being that for him. So when that is the situation there is no color for me. When I am on set and performing in the studio I do not get to have that type of mental connection with the performer. You really are thinking about physical positions, angles, pumping in and out at a certain beat per minute and it is very difficult. To be honest it creates some performance anxieties for me sometimes to perform on set. It is much more easier for me to perform sexually off camera with someone of any color, than it is on set. In my personal and escorting life I am very, very open; but on camera it is just a little harder.
TXL: SO THE INTERPRETATION THAT YOU DO NOT FIND MEN OF COLOR ATTRACTIVE AT ALL WAS A COMPLETE MISINTERPRETATION...?SEAN: Exactly, in my personal life my hobby is photography. I love going around the city and taking pictures of architectural structures and building, . I also do model photography as well, I love getting people in front of my camera plus photographing black men and women is a complete joy for me, because we have these features from the fullness of our lips and curves in our thighs that really come out photographically. Just the popping of our abs and chest is so phenomenal. I love shooting it. I definitely phrased that statement poorly because it is absolutely absurd to think I do not see and love OUR beauty.
TXL: WHAT WAS ONE OF THE FUNNIEST EXPERIENCES YOU HAVE HAD ON A SET?SEAN: It was probably a scene I just did recently…with Lucas we did a Men in Suits Series “ Closing the Deal” and one of the last scenes was a double penetration. It was my first DP on camera. In your personal life you and the other guy are very close and the third just sits down on you both and it is all sexy. When you are filming it, you have to keep in mind angles and lighting and so forth. The other two models were Colden Armstrong and Hans Berlin. Hans is laying down and Colden slides on top of him and leans so that I can slide in. Now I have to say Colden is an amazing bottom, his ass just opens up and devours whatever. Hans and I are both pretty big guys. So he is leaning forward and I am about to slide in . I get in him, but I keep slipping out. I did it over and over again, but I just kept slipping out. So everyone was just dying laughing about it, because we are trying to maintain this image of being super sexy and serious about it. It was just funny, in the end we get the shot, but it was pretty fun.
TXL: FOR A LONG TIME PEOPLE SIMPLY IDENTIFIED YOU AS A TOP...HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? SEAN: I am a pleaser. I like the European definitions, because Europeans do not tend to use Top or Bottom, but more passive/aggressive. It is assumed that the aggressive is going to be the top and the passive the bottom. I tend to identify on the passive, and that is simply to say that I need to feel what my partner is feeling. I am very much an empathetic lover. If I am with a bottom and he needs me to be super dominant and aggressive then I am that and I want to be that role, because I want to hear him moan and gasp. Likewise if they need me to gentle and cuddle I can switch to that as well. I am a chameleon in that respect; and similarly for bottoming. If the guy wants to pound me hard then I am open… lets do it…that is something that…well… I would say that is my least favorite, but after a little bit of alcohol…(chuckles)…I can get into that.
TXL: IF YOU COULD CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT THE INDUSTRY WHAT WOULD IT BE?SEAN: I would like to see more men of color that are not cast in roles where they are typecast. It seems black and Latino men have to be super aggressive and animalistic. I would like more porn that is less staged and more reflective of the day to day experiences of gay sex. I do not like that the lube and condom is off set and then it magically appears. I would like to display the realism of sex.
TXL: DO YOUR PARENTS KNOW WHAT YOU DO AND ARE THEY SUPPORTIVE?SEAN: They know, but by accident. The night before I went down to Ft. Lauderdale to film my first scene. I went out with a very close friend of mines and got shitfaced drunk. My sister and I have a very close relationship, so I thought it would be funny to drop the news on my sister, but instead of calling my sister I called my parents home. My dad being a good dad saw I had called at three in the morning and called back. We got into a huge argument over finances, which influenced a lot of our arguments. When you are drunk you should not argue with your dad. I told him that I was heading down to Ft. Lauderdale to do a porn shoot to make money for them, which was total irreverence to my dad. So he found out about it then and we have never spoken about it since that night. The next day I get a call from my mom, and in that worried mother voice that only your mother can give, she ask if everything was okay. I told her it was. Flash forward a year and I am in a relationship and my ex who is very upset with me and wanted me to feel the pain I was “causing” him, took all of my nude photos and posted them on my personal Facebook page. So my sister, academic adviser, and pastor found out. My sister called me and alerted me about it and we laughed about it. My immediate family all know at one time I was doing this,but they do not know that I am still doing it.
TXL: WHAT WAS YOUR PERSONALITY LIKE A KID?SEAN: I was nerdy…loud and playful. I really, really was the nerd. I am still the nerd. I would have a lot of fun staying indoors playing Pokemon or Sin City. It is embarrassing to admit, but I will still pull out a Pokemon game and play every once in awhile. I really was into graphics, animation, and art.
TXL: YOU HAVE ONE OF THE SEXIEST BODIES IN THE INDUSTRY RIGHT NOW, WHAT DO YOU DO TO KEEP YOUR BODY THAT BEAUTIFUL?SEAN: I go to McDonald’s once a week…(chuckle)…I really shun diets. I do not have to eat crazy hours. I do go to the gym everyday. My boyfriend teases me, because when I am working out and I am lifting he says I moan. He says it is like a sex moan. I have a different and very distinctive sex moan. I also have a trainer who gets me to push myself, get sweaty, and makes me almost want to throw up. When I go to the gym it is about maintaining a reasonable weight and not being to sore the next day. It is all about consistency in going to the gym. I also can not lie and say that just going to the gym keeps my body like this, it is a lot of genetics.
TXL: WHEN DID YOU DISCOVER HAT YOU CAN TOUCH YOUR DICK WITH YOUR TONGUE?SEAN: I happen to try and was successful. I tried it a 12 to see what it felt like.
[FULL INTERVIEW @THAXXXLIST]
